What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 05:51

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
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7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
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71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) đ
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
What is the future of AI and which are the best ones in 2025?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
19~ Who/when was your first âheartbreakâ?
39~ What are your love languages?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
How do you help patients stop hearing voices?
16~ Do you believe in âsoulmatesâ? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
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75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
How many times do you think you have âmade loveâ?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
What thing happened to you as a child that you havenât let go of to this day?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
What is your experience about Bonamour Sleep Earbuds?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Can being annoyed be a sign of getting angry?
9- Is there something youâve always wanted to ask me but youâre afraid?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
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Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
6- Whatâs your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What is the reason behind some people wearing trunks instead of speedos when swimming in pools?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
18- Whatâs your favorite way to relax after a long day? Whatâs your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Please share Did you stop?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
14- Do you have a âDeal Breakerâ, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
If you win, what will you make them do?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
9- Whatâs your favorite season and why? Whatâs your least favorite?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJâs when you are sleeping?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
1- Whatâs your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
42~ Whatâs your biggest regret in life?
Any that are a turn off?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
40~ Whatâs the weirdest place youâve ever had sex?
52~ What are your hobbies?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
1- Whatâs your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
Would you read them together?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
I would allow you to do it⌠What would you do to me?
66~ Whatâs the shortest time itâs ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Donât be shy now, I really want to know.
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Whatâs the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
65~ Describe the best orgasm youâve ever had? Care to share?
14 â Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
15~ Have you ever been âin loveâ? Who? Care to Share?
2- Whatâs your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
12- Whatâs your favorite food? Whatâs your least favorite?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past⌠it got you two here togetherâŚ
3- Whatâs your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
13- Whatâs your favorite drink? Whatâs your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
If yes, what?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
20- Whatâs your favorite candy? Whatâs your least favorite?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
Nothing too Serious
19- Whatâs your favorite fairytale? Whatâs your least favorite?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end⌠:-) some funny, some notâŚ
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
18~ Who/when was your first âcrushâ?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
The Ice Breaker Questions
7- Whatâs your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couplesâ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETCâŚ)
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Do you like the â69â position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? Whatâs your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
How old are you? Male or Female?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
92~ Everyone needs a âsafeâ word. What is yours?
5- Whatâs your favorite movie genre? Whatâs your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
14~ When was the first time you said, âI Love Youâ? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
85~ If you gave me a âfree Passâ to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything⌠Shave meâŚ
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the momentâŚ
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
52~ Are you willing to make âthose typesâ of bets with your partner?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3âŚ
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
85~ If I gave you a âFree Passâ for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
10- What is your favorite family tradition? Whatâs your least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Do you prefer your partnerâs pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Any that are a turn off?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
17- Whatâs your favorite holiday? Whatâs your least favorite?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
*** Questions About Me ***
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
29- How superstitious are you?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
*** Whatâs Your FavoriteâŚ? ***
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love LanguageÂŽ - The 5 Love LanguagesÂŽ
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can âPASSâ and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship⌠You can learn a lot about the other person⌠and yourselfâŚ
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
16- Whatâs your favorite vacation you have been on? Whatâs your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
4- Whatâs your favorite genre of music? Whatâs your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
What is your favorite position? Why?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Family Relation Age Play
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
3- What was the most surprising thing youâve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?